In a busy "dog eat dog" society, we all want to get ahead and/or move up. But is it really necessary at the expense of others? Sure there is an easy answer. No; but is it really that simple?
You might recall the question by Salome about James and John, in which she asked, "Then the mother of the sons of Zebedee came to Jesus with her sons, bowing down and making a request of Him. And He said to her, “What do you wish?” She said to Him, “Command that in Your kingdom these two sons of mine may sit one on Your right and one on Your left.”
New American Standard Bible: 1995 Update (LaHabra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Mt 20:20–21.
The question was to see if Jesus would give them special places of honor in the Kingdom to come. The problem was that during their greediness, they offended the other ten disciples around them. Did they really understand what they were asking? Did they even understand which kingdom was being spoken?
"No self-seekers and place hunters do anticipate evil results from their promotion. But that does not make them less selfish. It only shows that, besides being selfish, they are vain." The Training of the Twelve, A. B. Bruce, pg. 284.
"Many a bold, ambitious prayer, even for spiritual blessing, is offered up by petitioners who have no idea what the answer would involve, and if they had, would wish their prayer unanswered." Bruce, pg. 288.
But what happens to those whom are offended when this question arises? Normally we are offended when someone tries to "get ahead" of us; even in a line in a store! Why? Because the same ambitious spirit is in us, otherwise we would not have felt the same resentment. The humble might not feel this, but they will be grieved by its actions when they see it. All are affected within the realm; and yes it does occur even inside the body of believers. Even within the presence of Jesus...
So what is the way out of this style of thinking? "I shall obtain my kingdom in another way than secular princes get theirs. They get their thrones by succession. I get mine by personal merit; they secure their kingdom by right of birth, I hope to secure mine by the right of service; they inherit their subjects, I buy mine, the purchase money being mine own life." Bruce, pg. 292.
I don't know about you, but I want to be rewarded for what I earned, not gained at the cost of others. This way I can be proud about the hard work I gained for the kingdom, because of my love for my Lord, not because He owes me anything. I want my works to be "revealed as by fire" (1 Cor. 3:13) so that the last reward will be something that is eternal, not temporal.
Is it all worth it to move up the ladder? I guess that depends on your view of "What moving up the ladder really means?" Vanity or Vulnerability?